We Are Sanity Island!
The TriUU pledge drive for the coming fiscal year is fully met — and then some.
The Stewardship Team of Nancy S., Jan F. and Pat F. (with help from Myra S.), and the heavenly support of Jerry S., happily revealed on March 1 that the TriUU pledge drive for the coming fiscal year beginning April 1, 2026 is fully met. Not only was the goal of $190,000 met, but it was exceeded by over $15,000 — with over 40% of pledges paid in full up front.
Abundant gratitude to every member and friend of TriUU who pledged to keep our island of sanity and beloved community plentifully endowed in the coming year.
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Pat F.
Nancy S.
Nancy S.
Jan F.
WORSHIP SERVICES
April 2026's theme is "Embracing Possibility."
Rev. Kristina Spaude It's Easter Sunday, and despite all odds, a miracle has occurred — the tomb is empty, and new life is present everywhere... But it's different than many of us have been taught. Let's celebrate the triumph of life over death and love over hate together.
Rev. Samara Powers Whether you are staying in your lane or following your bliss, there is wisdom in selectivity. This service lifts up the role of spiritual discernment in the process of embracing possibility.
Rev. Kristina Spaude Communities have weakened over the last few generations, which is part of how we've gotten to where we are as a country today. Building new communities is a way for us to move forward. So what might that look like? We'll explore that idea together in this service.
Rev. Kristina Spaude Years ago, some ministers on Twitter challenged each other and other people of faith and no faith to write their stories in 6 words. Rev. Kristina wrote several but has kept coming back to this one — both as her personal story and the story of Unitarian Universalism. Join us as we explore stories of faith and what they can teach us about this month's theme of "Embracing Possibility."
JOIN US
Passover Seder: Potluck Dinner
Thursday, April 2 — 4:00 to 6:00 PM
The Feast of Unleavened Bread


Jewish teachings and traditions are one of the many sources from which the Unitarian Universalist living tradition draws. In celebration of the Jewish holiday of Passover, Jews all over the world join together in a ceremonial feast: The Seder. Our UU Haggadah honors this ancient tradition and relates it to our own UU faith and current events.
A suggested donation of $5.00 per person covers ceremonial foods and beverages. Bring your favorite dish — in keeping with Jewish tradition, please: no pork, no shellfish, and no leavened bread products. Reservations required — sign up at the table behind AV.
For more information: helenekirschbaum@gmail.com
TriUU Forum: Your New Website & The Internet 101
Thursday, April 9 — 4:00 PM
Speaker: Ken P., Creative Consultant & Web Developer


The way we connect, share, and stay informed has fundamentally changed — and we are keeping up. Join Ken P. for an engaging, jargon-free presentation covering a live tour of the new website, the Members Portal, a step-by-step login tutorial, and an Internet 101 for making the most of what the web has to offer. All are welcome — a celebration reception will follow the presentation.
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Special Screening: The Voice of Hind Rajab
Thursday, April 16 — 2:00 PM to 4:15 PM
Academy Award nominated film, Venice 2025 Grand Jury Prize
On January 29, 2024 Red Crescent volunteers received an emergency call. A 5-year-old girl was trapped in a car under fire in Gaza, pleading for rescue. While trying to keep her on the line, they did everything they could to get an ambulance to her. Her name was HIND RAJAB. A short moderated discussion will follow the film.
Tai Chi for Improved Balance & Flexibility
Friday, April 3 and Friday, April 10 — 11:30 AM to 12:15 PM
Instruction by Sally M. — outdoors, weather permitting
Sally M. will provide instruction and practice in her unique blend of tai chi and physical therapy. This will be particularly advantageous for those who want to improve their balance and flexibility.
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"Nu to UU" Class
Tuesday, April 28 — 10:00 AM to 12:30 PM
Curious about Unitarian Universalism?

Join Rev. Kristina and Helene K. to explore the values and beliefs of Unitarian Universalism and meet our local congregation. A great opportunity for newcomers or for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding. For more information or to RSVP, please sign up in our sanctuary or contact Helene.
For more information: helenekirschbaum@gmail.com
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TriUU Book Club
Monday, April 27 — 1:00 PM
"The Return: Fathers, Sons and the Land in Between" by Hisham Matar
Winner of the Pulitzer Prize, The Return is Hisham Matar's powerful memoir of his search for his father, who was kidnapped and imprisoned in Libya under Gaddafi's regime. Matar weaves personal history with political upheaval as he returns to Libya after decades in exile, seeking answers about his father's fate. A profound meditation on loss, home, and the bonds between fathers and sons.
(Nonfiction; 256 pgs; Pulitzer Prize 2017) Facilitator: Cindy G.
About the Author
Hisham Matar is an American-born British-Libyan novelist, essayist, and memoirist. His debut novel In the Country of Men was shortlisted for the 2006 Man Booker Prize, and his memoir of the search for his father, The Return, won the 2017 Pulitzer Prize for Biography or Autobiography and several other awards.
For more information: garrisonnancy@yahoo.com
MESSAGES
Message from Rev. Kristina
I keep wondering what to write about for this month.
While I am fine, so many of my colleagues are going through some really hard times, and I have been called on to hold space for them in their sadness, frustration, anger, and uncertainty. It's reminded me to be gentler with myself and with others, knowing the hardships they are going through — and often the hardships the people they love and serve are going through as well.
I've recently been in for some appointments — the normal things we have to do to make sure we care for our bodies as best we can — and have been surprised to get compliments on my clothes. The colors and patterns have been so warmly received.
It reminded me a little of being a chaplain. Hospitals tend to be on the cooler side, and my work involved moving throughout the medical center, so layers were a good idea. But layers in hospitals can be tricky. I had these two bright colored wraps, multi-colored pieces with peafowl and long plumes of feathers, that I would wear. Visually it set me apart from other providers, as almost everyone else had to wear scrubs, and I figured if nothing else, I could provide a little change up to the day with something colorful and attractive.
I also appreciated how the wraps set me apart from other providers. Unlike doctors and nurses and social workers and so many others, chaplains have the luxury of not having an agenda. There's no assessment to fill out (caveat: VAs do have assessments, but not the way other providers have), no checklists to go through. Chaplains are just there to support the patient and their loved ones, along with providers and staff. There's a lot of training available, although only a little training is often what is required. We're just there to be present to the patient's needs. And I tried to offer them something of a visual respite even if they didn't want to talk.
Anyway, many people are hurting and seeking connection these days. Maybe more than we realize. April's theme is "Embracing Possibility": may we all embrace possibilities for comfort, ease, and healing as we go about our days.
And as always, I look forward to seeing you and/or connecting with you soon!
— In faith and service,
Rev. Kristina Spaude (she/her)

President's Message from Cindy G., President of TriUU
A Thriving Community — Year-End Reflection
As I begin my fourth and final year as president of Tri-County Unitarian Universalists, I am quite happy to report that the state of our beloved community is thriving! We have much to celebrate today!
While we began March of 2025 with 89 members, we now have 100 members (that is an amazing 12%+ increase in one year's time!) This achievement is the result of all of our efforts to welcome people who walk through our doors, into a truly unique religious community in Central Florida. We come as seekers, looking to connect spiritually with others who share our values. We come to live our best lives with integrity and to live in this world compassionately.
We are a community built around relationships. This is the secret sauce that helps our little mighty engine run. Together we have built a culture of connection. We come to this community not as consumers expecting to receive, but instead as co-creators of beloved community.
Each week we are inspired by our minister, Rev. Kristina Spaude, to live our values and do the work that is ours to do, in a deeply troubled world. But we don't only come together for Sunday worship. Together we have co-created a ministry that touches us in many ways, on multiple days.
Amazingly, our relatively small congregation offers us opportunities to be together almost every day of the week if we choose. Over the past year we had monthly forums and potluck dinners; Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's gatherings; biweekly meditation; The Great Decisions class; our first ever Pride event; game nights; a Middle Eastern luncheon; a monthly well-attended women's group; a monthly book group; a weekly online news group; chalice circles; monthly bagel breakfasts; a new grief group; the Friction Farm concert; a theatrical performance of Love Letters; a camping group; a BBQ; a Pineapple-forward Tropical luncheon; and the amazing performer Tret Fure who is coming here soon!
And that's not all — we also have the multiple weekly community gatherings over coffee or breakfast. I believe that we are up to five groups now where members and friends can stop by to chat at will, no formal agenda, just the understanding that there is a group of people who share your values and, as the song goes, "where everybody knows your name." In these historically lonely times, that is quite a feat!
I am not even including here all of the informal invitations to have lunch together, to join each other at the movies, or at a park or a museum or even to be with one another in times of need and in times of celebration. There is even a new group that enjoys kayaking together.
Unfortunately, we also lost a few members over the past year too. Some moved to be closer to family, others to follow a faraway dream. Sadly, we lost to death our beloved members Jerry S., Robert A., and just recently, Ginger D.. We must also remember our dear friend Karen K.. Each of them helped to shape who we are becoming in this congregation and we will always remember them.
We treasure the legacies of those that we have lost and we continue to form deep and lasting friendships with the people that remain. We have co-created something very special here. And wonderfully, there is something naturally magnetic about what we are building — it draws in other people who believe in our shared values and are also seeking community and a sense of belonging. More than one person has told me that there is a special energy in this community.
This year we became "Sanity Island" — a snug harbor in a sometimes turbulent sea — and as we heard our Stewardship Chair report, we exceeded our pledge goal by over $12,600! Some superheroes don't wear capes; they sometimes wear hula skirts and carry around tropical birds like our mascot, Jerry! Thank you Pat F. and the Stewardship Team!
The Board of Trustees, our Treasurer Trish S., our finance team and all of our responsible team leaders, have worked hard to be good stewards of our finances. The board takes our fiduciary responsibility seriously and we are committed to live within our means while honoring the generosity and the dreams of the members who support us.
Last year and in the year ahead, we will continue our unique shared minister arrangement with The Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Lake County (UUCLC), which permits us to have a full-time dedicated minister for worship three times a month and part-time for pastoral care and guidance. More recently we have expanded our collaboration with UUCLC to respond to Florida legislative issues that sometimes collide with our UU values.
We are also good stewards of our land. This year our garden keepers have revitalized the Memorial Garden with native plants, developed a pollinator garden, and a Tortoise Harborage.
I am particularly proud that, as good stewards of the planet, this year we installed a solar system which includes 71 rooftop panels producing 28 kilowatts of power! That avoids adding 14 metric tons of pollution into the atmosphere every year. This carbon offset benefit is equal to a small forest of almost 700 trees. While living our values we are also realizing a significant cost savings in our energy expenditure. Thank you to Vice President Bruce T., our friend Susan E., and the Green team for helping us achieve this important goal!
Inside our sanctuary, we take delight in a growing, more accomplished choir, and enhanced worship music with piano, organ and drum accompaniment. Much thanks to Tom Z., who is now in his second year with us as our contracted music director.
We have also emphasized safety and well-being in the previous year. Some of this was achieved by the Safety Team that instituted a fire drill, a tornado drill, and CPR training. We have recertified our status as a Unitarian Universalist Association Welcoming Congregation, thus renewing our intentional and ongoing commitment to be explicitly inclusive and affirming of our LGBTQ+ members and friends. In these particularly trying times, we recognize the suffering of those who are marginalized and our congregation has responded to their individual needs by enhanced support of our minister's discretionary fund.
We have also increased our outreach to the world outside of our walls. We have collected hundreds of dollars in donations for the Martin Luther King, Jr. scholarship fund, the Central Florida Farmworkers, the 30 Palestinian Villages in the West Bank depicted in the film "No Other Land," and other Fifth Sunday initiatives. One unique service that we provide to the community is a Rummage Sale where, this year, about 37 volunteers worked each day, securing a record $5,326 in fundraising donations for this congregation. All items that were not purchased were donated to local charities who may also benefit from our largesse. It takes a lot of volunteers to run a small but mighty congregation. Over the past year, we have realized much volunteer growth especially with hospitality, worship leaders, chalice lighters, and building and grounds maintenance. In this beloved community almost everyone with the capacity to help out finds a place where their talents are cherished.
Today, I would like to highlight the success of our Communications Team. Earlier this year the Board of Trustees recognized that we attract hundreds of new people to our website each month. For many, the website is their first introduction to who we are and what we do. Accordingly we contracted with Ken P., a professional website developer, to create a visitor-targeted website that I am happy to say will be launching to the public very soon.
The Communications Team has worked closely with Ken to make this happen, but they have also worked diligently on our internal communications systems. Team members have come together to write for and put out an informative and inspiring monthly newsletter. They also established a process for publicizing our events through multiple methods including pulpit announcements, twice-a-week email messages, a listing in our weekly order of service, and press releases to the surrounding community. It hasn't always been easy work, but they are streamlining our processes and fulfilling our goals of keeping our beloved community aware of the multiple opportunities for participation. If you are still looking for a way to share your creativity and talents, the Communications Team is a great place to enhance your skills and be the first to know about what's going on. They particularly need strategic thinkers and flyer makers.
This has been a very exciting year indeed. Ours is a community of relationships, not transactions. In truth, we are not interested in what you can do for us — we are interested in how you can be with us. Everybody comes with their own talents and an inclination to learn from one another. Just by being together we have learned to do great things. And let me assure you, there are many wonderful things on the horizon.
As I enter my final year as board president, following three years of service, I'm thinking of this year as a capstone — an opportunity to bring together what we've learned, strengthened, and achieved as a community. My hope is to help ensure continuity, deepen trust, and leave the board and congregation well-positioned for the leadership that follows.
Thank you for being on this journey with me!
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Friction Farm
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Pat F.
Susan E.
Ken P.
TRIUU IN ACTION
The Community of Gratitude Food Pantry

Are you curious about where the wagon load of food goes after Phil Montague and Linda put it in the back of their car most Sundays? I was too, so I called the Community of Gratitude and asked if I could learn more. Sharon W. invited me to come on a day the pantry is open to see just how they "operate."
Phil and Linda take the food to Ocklawaha, a little town on the north side of Lake Weir with two distinct populations. The people whose homes are on the lake have money. The people who are served by the food pantry do not live on the lake. They are "forest people" — our neighbors, the elderly, people living in The Villages. They are, for the most part, the working poor. Most were cut off from SNAP benefits last Fall during the government shutdown. Every month since October the pantry has averaged between 1,100 and 1,200 families coming for food — almost double the number who used the pantry before last Fall. To get some food through a federal program they had to agree to serve anyone who lives in Marion County.
Most of their donated food comes from grocery stores like Publix. They must pay for food from Second Harvest, but it's still a good source of food for the pantry.

Sharon W., who coordinates the food pantry, gave me a tour and a chance to meet several volunteers. I also got to see how they distribute food during their open hours: Tuesday and Saturday from 10:00 to Noon and Thursday from 1:00 to 3:00 PM. It is a smooth operation. People start lining up at least an hour before opening. The day I was there, there were 7 cars waiting before the doors opened. Once it's open, a volunteer goes to the first car and gets the family's information. That information goes to the person at the computer and to the men who now start putting food from the different shelves and freezers into boxes for either 1–2 people or 3 or more. Volunteers bag the assorted foods that groups like ours donate, which is added to the meat, fresh fruits and vegetables, and other staples. The carts are then wheeled out to the cars. People don't come inside. A family is only allowed to come to the pantry once a month.

This is a civic organization, and they survive on donations small and large. Volunteers are vetted and many work more than the minimum of two hours a week. The atmosphere was jolly with warm words and hugs along with the "hum" of workers moving fast and efficiently. It felt like a caring family as Sharon shared that four of their volunteers are currently undergoing chemotherapy and are popping into her office checking on each other. Sharon was hoping to leave for a vacation when I was there but was beginning to think she wasn't going to get away.
And always the worry that there won't be enough food to feed all the families in the cars that line up so expectantly every month.
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Will McLean Music Festival


TriUU members gathered to enjoy an afternoon of Florida folk music at the Will McLean Music Festival. A good time was had by all.
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Memorial Garden Gets Some TLC

Garden Keepers and other volunteers spent several hours during the March 3rd cleanup day weeding, composting and mulching the Memorial and Butterfly Gardens.
Thank you to Marguerite (Peg) T., Brenda N., Peggy R., Alice G., Susan E., Liz P. and Constance R..
This winter has been particularly tough on the plants, and we are hopeful that with care, water and time the resilience of nature will become apparent. It may take a month or so, but look for the appearance of bush daisies, coreopsis, blue daze, ginger, purple queen and lantana, to name a few, in the Memorial garden. In the Butterfly garden there is a variety of native milkweeds, bee balm and bush clover. The verbena seems to have weathered the winter and is already showing vibrant purple flowers.
Be sure to check out the Yaupon holly tree by the Butterfly garden later this spring — it attracts lots of butterflies!
Liz Purdue donated plant cuttings and worked in Melody Meadows wielding her chain saw, cutting up the brush pile and using some of it to enhance the Gopher Tortoise habitat. Be sure to look for the official Gopher Tortoise signs when entering Melody Meadows from the Memorial Garden.
Tim M. was working around the newly planted Red Bud tree to loosen grass and dirt in preparation for enhancing the soil and mulching. This tree has been planted in honor of Jerry S.. A dedication will be scheduled some time in the next month or so — watch for information in the newsletter and listen for announcements.
It was sweaty, dirty but rewarding work — and fun doing it together. Our plan is to spend a couple of days per month in the gardens tending to their needs. If you would like to join us, please contact Anne M. at 585-314-3894.
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Anne M.
Future Camping Trips
Tentative April 7–9, 2026 (Tuesday–Thursday) — Lake in the Forest
I should have 6+ sites open and a few cabins. I am not sure at this time if we can do it as a donation back to the church like before. If not, I will discount the sites as a group rate. I am going to block off what I can for those dates and we can go from there. Just let me know if there is an interest.
December 6–9, 2026 (Sunday–Tuesday) — Anastasia State Park to see the lights!
Sites should be available in the coming weeks. Right now, we can book up to Nov 15, 2026. The lights festival is unclear and it could be Nov 14th or Nov 21, so I would hate to book it and miss out on seeing the lights. I will email those interested when they are available. We would like to first be in the Coquina section, which is walking distance to the beach. Kayaking, hiking, biking, shopping, seeing the fort, going to the winery, seeing the town are options for this trip.
Brenda N.
TriUU Cleanup Day: Buildings and Grounds
Tuesday, March 3, 2026. Fourteen people showed up for Cleanup Day in March at TriUU. The group performed many tasks inside and outside the sanctuary to keep things running smoothly — everything from sprucing up the Memorial Garden to installing a new first aid cabinet on the wall at the back of the sanctuary.
Those working in the Memorial Garden included Anne M. and Tim M., Liz P., Constance R., Peggy R., and Brenda N.. They planted flowers, weeded, and spread mulch and compost. Liz P. and Brenda N. installed a Buddhist prayer flag at the garden entrance. Marguerite (Peg) T. dug out weeds growing along the edge of the sidewalk. Tim dug a small trench around the newly planted tree set in honor of the late Jerry S.; once all the grass is dug out, the area will be covered with mulch to control weeds and nourish the tree. Susan E. trimmed the butterfly garden next to the church entrance and added fresh plants to the large pots near the entrance.
Kim H. and Bruce re-aligned chairs in the sanctuary using a special tool designed by Bruce that allows the chairs to be set at a uniform distance apart. Kim also inspected the fire extinguishers to make sure they are fully charged and operable. Alice G. helped with outside work, while others planned when to gather to paint the kitchen floor. (Paint is stored in the garden shed, but the trick is scheduling when the church is unoccupied so the painting job can be done as quickly as possible.) Ginger R. helped update the list of contractors used for work the volunteers cannot do — the old list is outdated.
In the meantime, two playful puppies stole one of Susan's gardening gloves and ran off. One puppy returned later with the missing glove.
Inside the sanctuary, handyman Bill S. assembled a new first aid cabinet and worked with Bruce T. to mount it on the back wall. Nancy S. cleaned the kitchen and dusted furniture.
The Work Day is held once every quarter at TriUU.
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Nancy S.
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Kim H.
Brenda N.
Constance R.
Ginger R.
Bill S.
Tim M.
Anne M.
Liz P.
Water Tank


Our thanks to Randall C. for taking on this project through the Building & Grounds Team. He knew of a company that printed designs in this large format. Ken P. worked with Randall to design it on the computer. It came in strips — like wallpaper — and was not easily secured to the rough surface of the tank. Randall C. and India C. also paid for the sign.
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Ken P.
WELCOME TO UU
Welcome to Unitarian Universalism: Inside the Chalice Room
Rev. Kristina Spaude

Our faith is not like others in many ways, and it can be confusing for people who may or may not be new to our pews. In previous months, I've written broad strokes about our faith, what it takes to become a UU minister, the role of covenant in our faith life, worship, and General Assembly (GA). This month I thought I'd write about various elements of a church building. Occasionally I get questions about what things are called, so today we're going to explore that.
The (worship) service takes place in a sanctuary. Small worship or prayer spaces are often called chapels. Large ones are called sanctuaries — at least in UUism. The congregation I was affiliated with in Pennsylvania has a chapel. TriUU's sanctuary is a multi-purpose room, called the Chalice Room, as it is not only a sanctuary.
The space that people often refer to as a stage is the chancel. On the chancel are the pulpit — the big speaker stand — and the lectern, along with our chalice and meditation bowl at the front. A couple of people have noted that I seem to avoid the pulpit, which is true. While I don't love how separated it makes me feel, as if there's a barrier between me and the congregation, it's really because I speak with my hands, and the lectern gives me much more freedom than I have with the pulpit. A lectern is a reader stand.
And if you speak at the pulpit, be prepared to receive many warnings not to touch the mic. It's delicate, and leaving it be allows it to stay in optimal mouth proximity and prevent excessive wear. Instead, you should use the heighten and lower buttons.
And as always, if there's something you're curious about, let me know!
In faith and service,
Rev. Kristina Spaude (she/her)

KNOW TRIUU
THE TRIUU PEER GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP IS MEETING A NEED
First & third Tuesdays, 11:00 AM — at TriUU
"You will lose someone you can't live without, and your heart will be broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn't seal back up. And you come through. It's like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly — that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp."
— Anne Lamott
In late January, six TriUU members met for the first time to focus on their grief. Trish S., a retired UU minister, is using her masterful facilitating skills to help the group explore their grief and their resilience. We understand that grief comes in many forms and from many kinds of losses. We honor all sources of loss and grief in this group.
This group is only open to TriUU members and friends. It meets twice a month at TriUU on the first and third Tuesdays at 11:00 AM.
Contact: Sally P. (352-459-5448) or Lenore M. (520-343-5278)
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"FINANCE IS FUN"

Do you agree with this title? If so, you may be just the person the Finance Team is looking for. In addition to thinking math is fun, can you balance a checkbook or handle the household budget? If your answer is "Yes," then call Tom M. at (631) 377-9329.
Being part of a team is a good way to get to know TriUU members better. And it feels good to be of service, using your time and talents to give back to our beloved community.
— Tom M.
Contact: Tom M.
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BEHIND THE SCENES AT TRI-UU: IVETT G. AND THE A/V TEAM

The crazy quilt audio-visual system was originally installed in 2008. Over the years, the now out-of-manufacture analog soundboard continuously received a myriad of add-ons using different manufacturers of analog, digital, used, new, basic and hi-tech devices. This system controls speakers, recordings, camera, visual displays, Zoom, YouTube, Facebook and Wi-Fi. One end of the system is composed of rudimentary electronics that connect through a cobbled network to a state-of-the-art phased-array satellite antenna downlinked to Tri-UU.
For over six years Ivett G. has kept this electronics collage functioning to support all activities at Tri-UU. Recently, the Wi-Fi failed just before a regular Sunday service. Ivett and the A/V Team hastily created a temporary "Hot Spot," and with a little magic provided the necessary electronics to conduct the service.

You see Ivett and the Team at their stations when you enter the Sanctuary. What you don't see is the dedication and time required to assure audio/visual services for the congregation. The Team prepares an hour early or more to set up before each event. Ivett also labors from home to fix problems. She is often in the building during the week to work on the system and assist technical service contractors. Ivett also trains A/V Team members and develops their schedules.
Ivett G.'s can-do attitude and perseverance eventually found the cause of the Wi-Fi system failure: a faulty underground cable at the rear of the building. Tri-UU is fortunate to have Ivett as a member and A/V volunteer.
— Bruce T.
Contact: Bruce T.
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PROTECTING SENIORS FROM SCAMS: THE BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU CAN HELP

Scams are common, often targeting older adults. The Better Business Bureau (BBB) offers free tools and trusted guidance to help seniors recognize scams and protect themselves.
Scammers believe seniors are more trusting and less likely to question unexpected requests. The BBB emphasizes that no age group is immune, and education is the best defense. By learning the warning signs, seniors can reduce their risk and feel more confident handling suspicious situations.
One of the most helpful resources is BBB Scam Tracker, a free online tool that allows anyone to:
- Look up suspicious phone numbers, emails, or websites.
- See scams reported by others in their community.
- Report a scam, even if no money was lost.
The information collected is reviewed by the BBB and shared with consumer protection agencies to warn the public and stop scammers. If you receive an unexpected call or message, checking bbb.org/scamtracker can provide peace of mind before taking any action.
Common Red Flags:
- Demands payment by gift card, wire transfer, or cryptocurrency.
- Pressures you to act "right now."
- Asks for personal information such as Social Security or Medicare numbers.
- Claims to be from a government agency or well-known organization but refuses verification.

Seniors are generous and eager to help others, especially during times of need. Scammers take advantage of this generosity by pretending to represent charities. The BBB encourages donors to take time before giving and verify charities through Give.org, part of the BBB Wise Giving Alliance. This resource helps people confirm whether a charity meets accountability standards and uses donations responsibly. Legitimate charities will not pressure you to give immediately.
If something feels wrong, it's okay to hang up, delete the message, or ask a trusted friend, family member, minister, or congregation member for advice.
To learn more or report a scam:
- Visit bbb.org
- Use bbb.org/scamtracker
- Check charities at give.org
By staying informed and watching out for one another, our congregation family can help protect everyone from fraud and ensure that trust and generosity are not misused.
— Bruce T.
Contact: Bruce T.
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MEMBER SPOTLIGHT
THIS MONTH'S TRI-UU MEMBER SPOTLIGHT: GRETCHEN L.
I reached Mary Gretchen L. at the end of a typically busy day, enjoying life in The Villages. She had just returned from an educational talk about Rwanda, Africa, in honor of International Women's Day — only one event in a week full of playing social and duplicate bridge, attending musical concerts, and being an active member of Tri-County Unitarian Universalist. She loves her adopted new home town and does not at all miss the brutally cold winters back where she came from, in Crown Point, Indiana. Visiting family there every Thanksgiving is all the snow she needs to see now, she told me.
Born in Lancaster, Ohio, Gretchen described an idyllic childhood in a delightful little town of lovely parks and wide streets lined with big trees, where she roller skated and played kick the can with friends until the street lamps came on at dusk. As a teenager, she moved to Jacksonville, Florida and happily finished high school attending dances and enjoying the beautiful beaches there.
She always knew she wanted to attend college, and graduated from Stetson University in DeLand, Florida with a degree in Education in Mathematics. "My mother said be sure and get a degree in something, in case you need it." Gretchen found herself the only woman in her differential equations course, which she was grateful to pass because, "It was really hard!" She went on to teach math to 7th and 8th graders for twenty years, especially enjoying her gifted and talented classes. "I liked the energy they had. I knew more math than they did, but I could tell they were all smarter than me. They soaked everything up like little sponges."
Along with her teaching career, Gretchen reared three boys who in their turn have given her six grandchildren. She has fond memories of living in Crown Point, where she could take them into nearby Chicago on the train to visit that city's many excellent museums, parks and musical concerts. When her grandchildren were young, she was able to gather them all together once a year for a "Nana's summer camp," and with her beloved second husband Ben L., take them to Dunes State Park on Lake Michigan. "And Ben always made sure each of the grandkids had a bicycle to ride," she remembers.

She first discovered Unitarian Universalism at Sauk Trail Fellowship. "The first time I went, I knew that this was where I belonged." Sadly, that congregation folded, but Gretchen was able to continue her membership at the First Unitarian Church of Hobart (now known as the First Unitarian Universalist Church of Northwest Indiana). Though she loved The Villages when she came to visit her son in 2016, she first had to make sure there was a Unitarian Universalist congregation nearby. "I couldn't be here without TriUU," she told me.
Gretchen loves TriUU for its community of like-minded fellows and is grateful we not only survived the pandemic, but are attracting new members and growing. When I asked her what she appreciates the most about being a member, she said, "My interests have deepened. I was so busy working and raising kids I never had time before to think about the really important things, like our First Principle, the inherent worth and dignity of each person — tolerance. I have changed a lot. Today, I try not to be critical and contribute whatever I can."
You can find Gretchen working hard on the hospitality committee, the Great Decisions forum, or attending the monthly gathering of Woman 2 Woman, among other activities. Please take a moment to say hello, and enjoy the twinkle in her blue eyes as they light up when she gives you a smile. And if you are not averse to a little dairy fat with your vegetables, here is her recipe for corn casserole, which so many of us have enjoyed at potlucks:
Gretchen L.' Corn Casserole
- 1 can of corn, drained
- 1 can of creamed corn
- 1 egg
- 1 box of Jiffy Corn Muffin Mix
- 1 stick of butter, melted
- 1 cup of sour cream
Mix all ingredients and turn into a 9" x 13" greased pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 1 hour.
— Amanda M.
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